Marriage is like a car and the couple is the driver. The car always needs to be maintained and so does the marriage. Often work, children and added years can put a strain on a marriage but be sure to always remember that you are the driver. You find time for everything else including vehicle maintenance, you need to first see your marriage as the most important thing to you, as it has to carry a lot as your vehicle does: Children, in-laws, job, and much more. Set a weekly or bi-weekly, appointment for you as a couple to spend time together. There are millions of things you can do together but whatever you do make it romantic and appealing. Age is irrelevant!