Rapid physical growth over a short period of time and concerns about changes in their bodies can cause stress and loss of self-esteem. There are also many fears that children have today: fear of going to sleep, the dark, danger in schools, fear of doctors, dentists, needles and more. Many children are embarrassed by habits they find hard to break, such as bedwetting and thumb sucking. A new baby or other addition to the family can cause stress; divorce or moving creates unhappiness in a child.
School and learning influences:
(Adapted from Z. Grant, M.S., CCHt.)
The loss of a friend who moves away, being shamed or frightened by a teacher or a school peer, boredom with school, having to make new friends, unfamiliarity with school work, doing poorly in a subject, being behind other children are common problems for many children and cause much stress and anxiety.
When children are experiencing stress or are worried (whether conscious of it or not), they demonstrate warning sign. School work may begin to slide; they may lose and forget things constantly. They may steal, become accident prone, have headaches or stomach aches. They may bite their nails and pull their hair or lashes. They may revert to wetting the bed and thumb sucking.
Health problems may start. They may have changes in disposition. They may stop wanting to go to school or begin to disrupt the classroom. They may begin lying or other avoidance patterns. They may have trouble sleeping and experience nightmares or sleepwalking.
Older children or adolescents may turn to drugs, alcohol and sex.
One of the most frequent reasons children are brought to Hypnotherapists is to improve how they are doing in school.
Negative influences on children:
(D. Morrill, M.S., CCH)
There are many positive influences upon children, but there are also many strong negative influences as well in their growing years. Some of them are:
It is important for the Hypnotherapist to be aware of these. Such information may need to be part of the assessment and considered in the decisions about what might, at least in part, be a source of a child’s trouble. It might also give clues as to the type or method of hypnotherapy most suites to the child.
When choosing a hypnotherapist, it is important to be sure that he or she is qualified. Pierre Benoit, CHt, RCCH, is a member of the Association of Registered Clinical Hypnotherapists of Canada (ARCH) and of the International Medical and Dental Hypnotherapy Association (IMDHA) and can be reached at (514)472-3535.
Mr. Pierre Benoit is the owner and operator of Hypnotherapy and Counselling Clinic (Clinique d'hypnothérapie et de relation d'aide). Mr Benoit worked as a Specialized Educator and Child and Family Counselor from 1977 to 1998. He worked at the following agencies:
From 1996 to 2004 Mr. Benoit opened the Institut International de Formation et de Ressourcement Inc. where he taught, in different agencies and companies throughout Quebec, intervention techniques to handle verbal and physical aggression. His programs were also accepted by cégeps where he taught his program such as Cégep de St-Jérôme, Cégep Marie-Victorin, LaSalle College.
Through his need to better himself, he was certified as a Neuro-Linguistic Programming Master Practitioner and started learning hypnosis as a modality for change to help his clients better themselves. He decided to specialize in hypnotherapy and, in 2004, he opened the Clinique d’hypnothérapie et de relation d’aide where he has been working full-time helping people reconnect with their potential for success.